HUBUNGAN SELF-COMPASSION DENGAN LONELINESS PADA PEREMPUAN LAJANG DI USIA DEWASA AWAL
Keywords:
Self-Compassion, Loneliness, Perempuan lajang, Dewasa awal
Abstract
Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk mengetahui hubungan Self-Compassion dengan Loneliness pada perempuan lajang di usia dewasa awal. Self-Compassion sendiri merupakan sikap mengasihi diri yang didasari pada bagaimana kita berhubungan dengan diri sendiri saat sedang mempersepsikan kegagalan, kekurangan, atau ketika sedang menghadapi penderitaan. Sedangkan Loneliness merupakan perasaan kegelisahan subjektif pada individu pada saat hubungan yang dimiliki dengan individu lain mulai kehilangan ciri-ciri pentingnya. Banyaknya perempuan yang mulai membangun sebuah keluarga, hal ini tentu dapat menjadi salah satu faktor perempuan lajang di usia dewasa awal mengalami perasaan kesepian Partisipan dalam penelitian merupakan 299 perempuan lajang, memiliki rentan usia 20-40 tahun. Teknik sampiling yang digunakan merupakan Purposive sampling. Alat ukur yang digunakan untuk variabel Self-Compassion adalah Tarumanagara Self-Compassion Scale (TSCS), sedangkan alat ukur yang digunakan untuk variabel Loneliness adalah loneliness scale version 3 (UCLA 3). Hasil penelitian ini menunjukan terdapat korelasi signifikan. Lalu, kedua variabel memiliki hubungan negatif. Hal ini menunjukan jika, nilai Self-Compassion tinggi maka nilai loneliness rendah, begitupun sebaliknya.
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Akin, A. (2010). Self-compassion and loneliness. International online journal of educational sciences, 2(3).
Baron, R. A., & Byrne, D. (2003). Psikologi sosial (Translation Ed.). Jakarta: Erlangga.
Brehm, S.S. (1992). Intimate relationship. New York: McGraw-Hill, Inc.
Breines, J. G., & Chen, S. (2012). Self-compassion increases self-improvement motivation. Personality and social psychology bulletin, 38(9), 1133-1143. https://doi.org/10.1177/0146167212445599
Bruno, F. J. (2002). Conquer Loneliness, Menaklukan Kesepian, jakarta: PT. Gramedia Pustaka Utama.
Burger, J.M. (1995). Individual differences in preference for solitude. Journal of Research in Personality, 29, 85-108.
Creswell, J. W. (2016). Research design : Pendekatan metode kualitatif, kuantitatif, dan campuran (4th ed.). Yogyakarta: Pustaka Belajar.
De Jong-Gierveld, J. (1987). Developing and testing a model of loneliness. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 53(1), 119–128.
De Jong Gierveld, J., & Van Tilburg, T. (2010). The De Jong Gierveld short scales for emotional and social loneliness: tested on data from 7 countries in the UN generations and gender surveys. European journal of ageing, 7, 121-130.
DiTommaso, E., & Spinner, B. (1997). Social and emotional loneliness: A reexamination of weiss’ typology of loneliness. Personality and Individual Differences, 22(3), 417–427. https://doi.org/10.1016/S0191-8869(96)00204-8
Lim, M. T. A. F., & Kartasasmita, S. (2018). Dukungan internal atau eksternal; selfcompassion dan perceived social support sebagai prediktor stres. Jurnal muara ilmu sosial, humaniora, dan seni, 2(2), 551-562.
McCrae, R. R., & Costa, P. T. (1987). Validation of the five-factor model of personality across instruments and observers. Journal of personality and social psychology, 52(1), 81. https://doi.org/10.1037/0022-3514.52.1.81
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Neff, K. D. (2003). The development and validation of a scale to measure selfcompassion. Self and identity, 2(3), 223-250. https://doi.org/10.1080/15298860309027
Neff, K.D., Hseih, Y., & Dejitthirat, K. (2005). Self-compassion, achievement goals, and coping with academic failure. Self and Identity, 4, 263-287.
Neff, K.D, & McGehee, P. (2010). Self-compassion and psychological resilience among adolescents and young adults. Self and Identity, 9, 225-240.
Neff, K. D. (2011). Self-compassion, self-esteem, and well-being. Social and Personality Psychology Compass, 5(1), 1–12. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1751- 9004.2010.00330.x
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Papalia, D. E., Olds, S. W., & Feldman, R. D. (2009). Human development (11th Ed.). McGraw-Hill.
Papalia, D. E., & Feldman, R. D. (2017). Menyelami perkembangan manusia (12th ed.). Salemba Humanika.
Santrock, J.W. (2003). Adolescence: Perkembangan remaja (Translation Ed.). Erlangga.
Santrock, J. W. (2011). Life-Span development (13th Ed.). McGraw-Hill. Sears, D. (2000). Psikologi sosial. Erlangga.
Septiana, E., & Syafiq, M. (2013). Identitas “lajang” (single identity) dan stigma: Studi fenomenologi perempuan lajang di Surabaya. Jurnal Psikologi Teori dan Terapan, 4(1), 71-86. DOI: https://doi.org/10.26740/jptt.v4n1.p71-86
Shepherd, D. A., & Cardon, M. S. (2009). Negative emotional reactions to project failure and the self compassion to learn from the experience. Journal of Management Studies, 46(6), 923-949. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.14676486.2009.00821.x
Weiss, R. S. (1973). Loneliness: The experience of emotional and social isolation. MIT Press.
Tanzil, A. T., Satiadarma, M. P., & Roswiyani, R. (2022). KESEPIAN, KECERDASAN SOSIAL DAN HARGA DIRI PADA REMAJA DI MASA PANDEMI COVID-19. Jurnal Muara Ilmu Sosial, Humaniora, dan Seni, 6(1), 80 https://doi.org/10.24912/jmishumsen.v2i2.1587
Theresia, S., & Tiatri, S. (2023). THE EFFECT OF LOVING-KINDNESS MEDITATION INTERVENTION ON SELF-COMPASSION IN TEACHERS OF CHILDREN WITH INTELLECTUAL DISABILITIES. International Journal of Application on Social Science and Humanities Vol. 1, No. 2, 1396-1406.
Yuniarti, D., & Agustina. (2022). HUBUNGAN LONELINESS DENGAN CELEBRITY WORSHIP PADA REMAJA PENGGUNA FAN ACCOUNT BTS DI TWITTER. Jurnal Muara Ilmu Sosial, Humaniora, dan Seni Vol. 6, No. 2, 517-524. https://doi.org/10.24912/ jmishumsen.v6i2.18717
Purwandita, B. S., & Monika . (2021). LONELINESS DAN SELFCOMPASSION PADA SANTRI YANG TINGGAL DI PESANTREN SELAMA PANDEMI COVID-19. PROSIDING SERINA III 2021. https://doi.org/10.24912/pserina.v1i1.16151
Published
2024-01-05
How to Cite
Maria Monica, & Denrich Suryadi. (2024). HUBUNGAN SELF-COMPASSION DENGAN LONELINESS PADA PEREMPUAN LAJANG DI USIA DEWASA AWAL. Journal of Social and Economics Research, 5(2), 1104 - 1113. https://doi.org/10.54783/jser.v5i2.218
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